What's really going on in Memphis, TN?

We moved to Memphis, Tennessee in the middle of Hurricane Harvey on a Thursday. I couldn't see more than  20 feet in front of me, my hazard lights were on, and two tornadoes had touched down in Decatur County.  All I wanted was to be warm and drinking hot chocolate with my friends in Lynchburg, Virginia, and it was 708 miles behind me.

 A quick few photos with Dani, one of my best friends and LU Marketing co-worker.

A quick few photos with Dani, one of my best friends and LU Marketing co-worker.

It was too late to turn back now.

Today marks two weeks at my new job at Stash Home in Memphis, Tennessee. The hurricane is gone, my stomach is settled, and I have the brain space to be blogging, so that's good news. But its all so scary and new. Quitting your job and moving across the country may sound exciting at first, but the glamour does wear off after all the goodbye parties and packing is done. You are left in an unfamiliar place with not a lot to go on. It can be discouraging, but I know you, if you're reading this, are cheering me on from a distance! Please keep doing that. Keep texting us, and calling us. We're exploring and learning, but we do still miss all the familiarity of home.

About three months ago we had decided to commit ourselves to pray more for what God had in mind for our skills. We knew that we liked Virginia, and our friends there, and that God was using us. But, we also knew that we were itching to be used in different ways, learn new things, move, and possibly improve our finances in the process. It was time for a big change. 

We can't honestly say we're doing great. The world's measurements of success are not God's measurement of success, and we have to remind ourselves of that everyday. The process is harder than we thought. We're still searching for a place to live, a job for Josiah, a church, and friends. The basics. All the things that you take for granted when you have them. 

 

 Our Gospel Community Small Group August 2017, the week before we moved to Memphis, TN.

Our Gospel Community Small Group August 2017, the week before we moved to Memphis, TN.

 I was part of a traveling ministry team, playing electric violin and acting in dramas from September 2010-December 2013. These people were my closest family! That's me at the top....with blonde hair!

I was part of a traveling ministry team, playing electric violin and acting in dramas from September 2010-December 2013. These people were my closest family! That's me at the top....with blonde hair!

 Playing Viola, as part of Atlas Rhoads at Christmas Coffeehouse as a student, December 2013.

Playing Viola, as part of Atlas Rhoads at Christmas Coffeehouse as a student, December 2013.

 Attending a ReHash designer meet-up cookout with friends from school and my ministry team, Vision Ministries, April 2011.

Attending a ReHash designer meet-up cookout with friends from school and my ministry team, Vision Ministries, April 2011.

We had seven years in Lynchburg, Virginia. 3.5 as students and 3.5 as alumni and employees of Liberty University.  A blessing we didn't expect to have, filled with the most special memories and incredible friends. That's why I've included a lot of college memories in this post. People I roomed with in college dorms, new 'family' I made in my traveling ministry team and at work, and trails I hiked while living in the Shenandoah Valley. The three jobs I had after college at a law firm called Liberty Counsel, Sodexo Hospitality Dining, and as a Liberty University Marketing Photographer.  I wanted to showcase old moments while also showing you what God is doing in our lives. Slowly but surely, we're learning how to live here. 

There are festivals and backroads, and good food and crazy people. There's traffic and accidents, but there's great ministries and friendly neighbors. Its a city that we're living in, and God calls us to meet with people where they are, no matter how ill-equipped or young we feel. (1 Timothy 4:12)

 Attending Liberty University convocation with a few of my favorite room mates, Taylor and Ashleigh, Fall/Winter 2012.

Attending Liberty University convocation with a few of my favorite room mates, Taylor and Ashleigh, Fall/Winter 2012.

 My roomie, friend, and photography mentor for many years, Carla Miles. (www.carlajanephoto.com)

My roomie, friend, and photography mentor for many years, Carla Miles. (www.carlajanephoto.com)

 My staff team at Liberty Marketing Photography, August 2017. Love each of them!

My staff team at Liberty Marketing Photography, August 2017. Love each of them!

So, what really has been going on for two weeks? After all, I haven't really posted on social media except for a post of a park we went to, and some other "stay tuned" announcements. And thats fine. It is really important to me to be present with my sister and brother-in-law, and work on communicating with my non-social-media husband. After being separated by so many states for so many years, being close to my sister Lindsay  is an awesome blessing. We are so thankful to have family here, and our times getting food (and a little ice cream!) together have been great! The rest of our time has been filled with Josiah and I doing all the non-glamorous job searching, house hunting, emailing, driving to apartments to check them out. Not a lot of "vacation-style exploring." 

My job is about a 45 minute commute, made longer by the kind of traffic that would give the most patient person a migraine. My little 2-feet-off-the-ground sedan feels like a little krill about to be eaten by the move-or-die traffic of large whale-like vehicles. Traffic is either moving at 80mph or 10mph. Sometimes I'm parked on the highway. Its confusing. It cuts a lot of time out of my day, and I find myself getting home around 5:45 or 6pm, trying to decompress and make dinner, and then finding its too late to go out and explore, so our evening consist of online house hunting and bedtime. Alarm clock rings at 6:02AM, and I leave around 7AM.  Its not an exciting cycle, but its going to have to do for now before we truly get settled. 

 Hiking  McAfee's Knob June 2016 on a three day hiking trip.

Hiking  McAfee's Knob June 2016 on a three day hiking trip.

There is a mysterious force the compels people to try new things. Its the desire to see if you're capable of learning something new in a new place. The desire to see if the grand adventure of leaving comfortable and diving into the unknown is tangible or just a pipe dream. Taking risks, and praying everyday; that's what we're doing. But we need your prayers too. We truly do.

We didn't have this all planned out years or months ago. We didn't see Memphis, TN as a "destination", or even the place we would settle for the rest of our lives. Even today we don't have a such a place in mind. We're learning to be faithful with the skills god has given us as a couple to serve him, and we know God will provide. The bible tells us in the Sermon On The Mount that the beatitudes, a list of qualities that mark good character and faithfulness, is what we need to focus on. If I was focusing on a checklist of my personal accomplishments and dead set on getting there, I would be severely off course of what God has for my life. I am a sinner who needs God's guidance. 

Matthew 5: 3-11 says

Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

4 “Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.

5 “Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth.

6 “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be satisfied.

7 “Blessed are the merciful, for they shall receive mercy.

8 “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.

9 “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God.

10 “Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness' sake, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

11 “Blessed are you when others revile you and persecute you and utter all kinds of evil against you falsely on my account. 12 Rejoice and be glad, for your reward is great in heaven, for so they persecuted the prophets who were before you.

 We 'walked' in May 2014 as graduates of the School of Communication. We were married a few shorts months later.

We 'walked' in May 2014 as graduates of the School of Communication. We were married a few shorts months later.

 My cousin Elizabeth, who I've had to privilege to live near since she moved to Lynchburg in 2010!

My cousin Elizabeth, who I've had to privilege to live near since she moved to Lynchburg in 2010!

 Josiah and I at the basement studio of Joel (my old coworker and boss at LU Photography) and Janine Coleman's house, October 2016.

Josiah and I at the basement studio of Joel (my old coworker and boss at LU Photography) and Janine Coleman's house, October 2016.

So how can you help us, from miles away?

  • Pray for us, please. It is the biggest tool for helping believers in need.
  • Share this blog post with your friends in Tennessee, Arkansas, and Mississippi. 
  • Leave a review on Facebook, and leave a comment on this post!
  • Follow @KaitlynBeckerPhoto on Instagram and look at it, or share it with a friend. I just like making friends with people, and yes, I'd love to meet potential customers but first and foremost we are here to meet people and start LOVING Memphis!
  • Send seafood. I miss fresh seafood. Preferably oysters and lobster and scallops. 

 

So here's to all the new things that we're learning. Here's to finding people that love us as much as we want to love others. Here's to good barbeque, Ole Miss, Alabama, and saying "Happy Fall Y'all." Here's to finding what the 25 year-old Kaitlyn and Josiah can do away from the comfort of their first real home. 

 

Here's to Memphis.

 

Sincerely,

Kaitlyn Becker Johnson

 Shooting football at Liberty University, Fall 2016.

Shooting football at Liberty University, Fall 2016.

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Danielle Heitzman | Central VA Portrait Session

Say hello to Dani.

Yes, Dani. 

 

Danielle Heitzman was one of those "friends at work" that became a Real Friend. A Proper Noun Capitalized Real Friend.

When I started work at Liberty University Marketing as a Photographer I got to know her because of her frequent love of puns and good office humor that brightened up our little cubicle-land. Dani is an excellent graphic designer, and hardworking professional. She never complains about having too much to do...she loves being busy, and getting work done. She also loves The Office and making friends in our office, so no matter where I moved, I knew she would always stop by in the mornings!

Once I found out that she loved hiking and camping just like me, the funniest thing happened: We took a spontaneous camping and hiking trip together, just us two. Bunch of crazy kids. We knew each other from work and got along well, but this was our first 'big' outing with just us two. We started the day early Saturday morning at the Farmer's Market and grabbing a random assortment of food that we deemed as "hipster" enough to take on a camping trip to Big Island, VA. We even stopped into antique stores and bought things just for the aesthetic. We had reached a new level of Millennial.

Our camping trip went well, and for the weeks and months that followed, we were able to spend more and more time together outside of the office, just talking, biking, playing tennis, or going on more trips. It has been an amazing journey to see how much we have both grown emotionally and spiritually because of the kinship that good, godly, friendship creates. We've bounced ideas off of each other and even talked about making a magazine (one day!), and in the end Danielle is one of my favorite encouragers and creators. 

If you know her, then you are privileged and blessed to be a friend to someone who cares so deeply for those around her. 

 

Comment below some of your favorite memories of close friends! I love hearing those long ago stories of people that we'll never forget. I'll mention my favorite on my next post, @KaitlynBeckerPhoto! 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Lynchburg College, Central VA Date Night Session

Kaylee and Michael are goofballs.

But you wouldn't know that when meeting them for the first time. Two professionals in their twenties....this couple knows how to work hard and laugh hard. They rock the 'smise' model face while still laughing about their month of Pokemon Go life. Quite fitting, as we walked through the beautiful lawn and academic are of the Lynchburg College campus, which is also a Pokemon Go 'haven' of sorts.

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I have known Kaylee for almost 2 years! As the project coordinator for my full time job as a photographer at Liberty University, I get to work with her 8 hours a day...5 days a week! So, its always a great idea to know your co-workers a bit, because they become your family.

Sometime in the early months of my employment in the winter of 2015-16 Michael started dropping by with Chick-Fil-A, and offering Kaylee the kind words and encouragement that she needed. While Kaylee laughed it off, we could all see that Michael liked her and it wasn't long before they were an official couple. Learning about Michael through Kaylee's little snippets of conversation made our little family love him all the more. A talented musician and rapper, Michael was the fun and laid back personality that a made Kaylee relax and enjoy the small things. He also made her laugh....and that's a big part of who they are!

Kaylee has asked before our session that the photos be "fun and fancy", so what did I do? I made sure good spirits and lots of laughs were happening. Kaylee even took off her shoes for a few of the above shots. We also made sure to use the gorgeous Jeffersonian architecture of Lynchburg College to emphasis their beautiful ensembles, and give that professional look that they were looking for. Check out these models...

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And can we also talk about how slick this suit looks on Michael? Dang.

I loved shooting this beautiful Lynchburg College Campus session. Any other Lynchburg College Alumni out there? I live right around the corner from this beautiful spot, and I can't wait to explore it more in the future. Headshots, anyone?

Thanks again Kaylee and Michael!

Sincerely,

Kaitlyn Becker

 

 

 

 

VENDORS:

Dress: Live Trendy or Die

Suit: J. Ferrar, J.C. Penny

 

 

 

 

Michela Brooke Diddle | Central VA Portrait Session

Its not every day that you get to photograph another photographer. Talk about pressure, right?

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Working with Michela is a breeze. Despite her being photographed 4 times that week, this beautiful entrepreneur smiled and laughed through a full session at the Anne Spencer House Garden, in Downtown Lynchburg, VA. 

What is so charming, and surprising, about the Anne Spencer House, is how tucked away and private it is. The house is hidden on a historical street in Lynchburg, unfrequented by the busy patrons of Main Street or Commerce Street. With street parking only, it is only when you are right in front of the house that you realize you have arrived. It does not ask to be seen with a loud and showy front yard and landscaping. Rather, it whispers to you to come and explore, between other equally old and lovely homes on the road.

Michela is the same. A photographer who commands the tools of both digital and film formats, she is incredibly talented in capturing details and fluid moments in her photography. Visiting her Instagram, @MichelaBrookePhoto, is like breathing in the ocean air and listening to the gulls pass by overhead. She too, like our famous poet and the namesake of our location, Anne Spencer, doesn't fall into the 'yelling match' of social media, but asks her followers to be a part of the beauty of her art, and ultimately the Gospel.

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I had so much fun photographing her! Thanks for stopping by to view the images, and don't hesitate to contact me about your portrait and lifestyle brand images. Your image can be the make-or-break thing about your business, so don't leave it to chance!

As always, enjoy a cream soda and relax tonight!

Sincerely, Kaitlyn Becker

Central Virginia Fashion Lifestyle Session // Macey Alexandra

Three things: #Sponsored, #Influencer, #Blogger.

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You wouldn't expect any of those hashtags to define Macey when you meet her. A friendly, easy going lady, Macey also laughs over our adventurous mistakes of very strong (read: pungent) cold brew coffee at 8AM on a Saturday. She jumps right into conversation about how new and somewhat unpredictable the next season of post-graduation life will be. Exciting things are happening for Macey in the world of being a voice for brands that align with her vision of bringing good every day products and fashion to real women. She carefully crafts her posts to explain why she loves products, but always steers clear of being "too selly" as she puts it. She loves getting 'collab mail', but also loves being honest with her over 11k Instagram followers at @MaceyAlexandra. You could say she's pretty grounded. 

I finally got the chance to coordinate some photos for her upcoming collaborations, and spend some time walking around our humble city of Lynchburg, Virginia.  We met years ago when she was an intern for the food service company that I worked for, and became quick friends. After many shared coffees, and what seemed like endless hours of blowing up balloons for events, we came to the conclusion that friendships are built on cultivating time and care for each other, and cheering each other on in our passions. So Macey, GET IT GIRL. I'm your biggest fan.

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Can we talk about how naturally radiant Macey is? This girl makes my job easy with a personality and grace like this! If you're looking through these, and interested in collaborating, let's talk!  One of my favorite parts of being a Virginia Fashion and Lifestyle Photographer is working with people from all over, and helping them visually tell their story the best way possible.

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So many great vendors contributed to the outfits you see here! Go check them out by clicking the links below!

Pink Romper by 599 Fashion

Floral Dress by Ellie Lynn Boutique

Black Bodycon Ruffle Dress

Open Toe Booties

Beaded Glory Necklace

Things to Know When You Hire Me!

It's pretty amazing that you're here in my little-big corner of the internet. I never for one second forget how blessed I am to have clients and friends that love my work enough to check out my blog, comment on my Instagram, and even hire me. If you're in the market to hire me, you should know a few great things about your decision!

 

1. I am happy to see you, and trust me- you look amazing! 

One of the blessings of working with clients one-on-one while creating images is that I get to pick up on your great vibes, and I get to share some joy-vibes in your life! My goal is to make you see how stunning you really are, and that might include making you laugh. Everyone has a genuine personality that I aim to make known in your photos. So relax, you're with a professional who has years of experience making people look their best. I have a fun but strict... "no negativity!" policy. So what does that mean? It means your time with me is going to be filled with encouragement. Not just compliments, but genuine relationship building where I get to see what fires you up! We're going to talk about how good-looking you are from the inside out! The world doesn't need more photoshop, it needs more graceful and confident people like you!

 

2. I have years of experience. I work with clients everyday!

As my oldest sister always says: "You've been around the horn!" Which means "You've seen it all, and dealt with it!" And yes I have. We can swap crazy stories later, but after 6+ years in the photography industry, I have seen a lot! And one of the things I'm proudest of, is that I have so many happy clients! My goal is to work with you, and educate you about how I do my business so we lower the risk of any miscommunication.

 

3. I hand-edit all of my images, and each one is a piece of art with a lot of hours behind it!

Photography is a lot more than just pressing a button! Professionals make it look easy, but it sure isn't! Let's say a shoot last 30 minutes. After our 30 minutes of shooting, I head home and backup all your images to different drives so nothing gets lost. Then those images are selected and edited in various professional software programs that allow me to change the tone and feel of the image and even take out some distracting elements. Then those images are put through 2 or 3 more rounds of editing and processing until they are uploaded into a high resolution gallery for you to download and share. I love it when my clients appreciate the work and time that goes into their product, and I especially love it when they post and tag me (@KaitlynBeckerPhoto on Instagram or Kaitlyn Becker Photography on Facebook) in those photos! 

 

4. Your opinion matters!

When you work with me, you also get the chance to get the images you've always wanted. If you have a park, a special swing set, or a particular place that you've imagined getting photos at, let me know! Speak up, and let me know what your preferences are, so we can all be involved in the creative process together. You invest in me so I can invest my artistic expertise back into you!

 

5. You actually rock.

Did you know that everyone person you meet knows something you don't know? That's a simple statement- but a profound one. Every time I meet someone I have the chance to get to know a person who is an expert in engineering, motherhood, hair care, oncology or any number of fields! It's exciting, and each person has something amazing to bring to the table. I want you to feel that confidence when you book with me! You're killin' it. 

 

Sincerely,

Kaitlyn Becker